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Vol. 9 No. 2, March-April 2007
Copyright 2007 by Wolf J. Rinke
mailto:WolfRinke@aol.com
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IN THIS ISSUE
1. NEWS YOU CAN USE
2. SPECIAL OFFER FOR SUBSCRIBERS ONLY
3. HOW TO GET RID OF WORRIES--PART I
4. HEAR WOLF "HOWL"--I MEAN SPEAK
5. HUMOR BREAK
6. ABOUT THE EDITOR
7. PRIVACY STATEMENT AND SUBSCRIPTION INFORMATION

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INSIGHT BREAK
A cartload of worry won't pay an ounce of debt.
--Old Italian proverb

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1. NEWS YOU CAN USE
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Aerobic Exercise Keeps Your Brain Fit

A randomized clinical study of 59 elderly participants found that the brain's decline which starts at about age 40, may be arrested and even reversed by aerobic exercise. As little as three hours of moderate exercise per week, such as brisk walking, resulted in "significant increases in brain volume, in both gray and white matter regions." According to the researchers "these results suggest that cardiovascular fitness is associated with the sparing of brain tissues in aging humans [and provide] a strong biological basis for the role of aerobic fitness in maintaining and enhancing central nervous system health."

ACTION STEPS
Participate in moderate aerobic exercise for 30 minutes a day six days a week.
Source: S. J. Colcombe et al., "Aerobic Exercise Training Increases Brain Volume in Aging Humans." Journal of Gerontology Series A: Biological and Medical Sciences 61: 1166-1170, 2006. (www.biomed.gerontologyjournals.org/cgi)

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2. SPECIAL OFFER FOR SUBSCRIBERS ONLY
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3. HOW TO GET RID OF WORRIES--PART I by Wolf J. Rinke
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To me worrying is like backward goal-setting. Because when you worry you are vividly imagining all of the things you do not want to have happen! And boy do we like to worry. According to one study four out of five Americans said that they worry. (That's 80% of us doing the backward goal setting thing.) The poll conducted by Barna Research, asked adults what are "the most pressing challenges and difficulties you face." Among those who worried, 28 percent said that they worried about finances, 19 percent identified health, 16% mentioned career issues, followed by parenting concerns (11 percent), family relationship issues (7 percent) and goal accomplishment challenges (7 percent).

Research further indicates that women tend to worry more than men. For example in a study of 1,044 women in the U.S. conducted by Bruskin Audits and Surveys Worldwide, fifty percent reported that they experience anxiety symptoms and worry for a period of more than six months. In addition, one out of 10 women describes herself as having "unrealistic" or "excessive worry."

What makes these findings startling is that most of us appear to have little to worry about. In fact, 78 percent of the Barna Research poll's respondents rated themselves as completely or mostly satisfied with their lives. And that was the case even though this poll was taken after 9/11.

I find our propensity for worrying particularity perplexing, since only 8 percent of our worries are "legitimate"--that is, they are under our control. The other 92 percent are "worthless worries" also known as the coulda, shoulda, woulda syndrome. That's when you engage in "catastrophizing" convincing yourself that a stomachache means that you have an ulcer and an "angry" look by your spouse means that you are about to get a divorce. Worthless worry is when we try to solve what can't be solved because it has already happened, will never happen or is simply not under our control.

According to psychiatrist Edward M. Hallowell, worry can depress us, destroy our relationships, sap our energy and our joy of living. Struggling with perpetual "what if" scenarios can make us physically sick with back pain, recurring headaches and digestive disorders. It may even weaken the immune system, leading Dr. Hallowell to conclude that chronic, persistent worry is just as dangerous as high blood pressure.

Not to worry--pun intended--I have delineated an eight-step process to help you get rid of worries once and for all.

Step 1. Clarify what it is that you are worried about. If you have difficulty doing this in your head, write it down.

Step 2. Ask yourself if there is anything you can do to affect the situation. If not, it's a worthless worry--skip to Step 8. If you can affect the situation, go to the next step.

Step 3. Identify the worst possible outcome.

Step 4. Ask yourself if you can live with the worst possible outcome. If so, go to Step 6. If not, go to the next step.

Step 5. Do everything in your power to solve the problem right now.

Step 6. Make an action plan that will solve the problem entirely or minimize its bad consequences.

Step 7. Take action.

Step 8. Quit worrying. Either it's too late or worrying won't make a bit of difference.

Of course you can do what I do, and reduce this eight step Worry Buster process, down to two:

Step 1. What will happen if I worry about this really well? If the answer is "nothing," quit worrying. If on the other hand you can impact the outcome, go to step 2.

Step 2. Do something--anything--now. Then quit worrying.

Still need more help? In the next issue of this eNewsletter we will discuss six "Blues Buster Action Steps" you can take to get rid of worries once and for all.

Source: W. J. Rinke, Beat the Blues--How to Manage Stress and Balance Your Life, (CPE Home Study Course Approved for 28 CPEUs), Wolf Rinke Associates, Clarksville, MD, pp. 57-58, 2006, www.WolfRinke.com/CEcredits.html

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4. HEAR WOLF "HOWL"--I MEAN SPEAK
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These full day seminars maybe open to you if your company is a member of the Institute of Management Studies (IMS). Contact the chairperson for specifics.

Winning Management: Building a Peak Performance Workplace
3/27/07, Toronto, CAN, Mark Jesty, Toronto@ims-online.com
4/4/07, Columbus, OH, Wes Mirick, Columbus@ims-online.com
6/5/07 Dallas-Ft. Worth, TX, Mike Godwin, Dallas@ims-online.com
6/7/07 Pittsburgh, PA, Maury Burgwin, mburgwin@ims-online.com

Don't Oil the Squeaky Wheel: Innovative Strategies to Improve Leadership Effectiveness.
10/11/07, Seattle, WA, Bill Woods, Seattle@ims-online.com
12/11/07 Hartford, CT, Art Muldowney, Connecticut@ims-online.com

NOTE: I have other "in-house" presentations scheduled in the U.S.A., Canada and Europe. Please let me know if you are interested to preview me or bring me into your organization at reduced expenses when I'm scheduled to be in your area. That way we can let you know when I'm coming your way!

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5. HUMOR BREAK
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Why Worry?

There are only two things to worry about;
Either you are well or you are sick.
If you are well, there is nothing to worry about;
If you are sick, there are two things to worry about;
Either you will get well or you will die.
If you get well, there is nothing to worry about.
If you die, there are only two things to worry about;
Either you will go to Heaven or you will go to Hell.
If you go to Heaven, there is nothing to worry about.
If you go to Hell, you will be so busy shaking hands with friends,
you will not have time to worry.
--Unknown

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7. ABOUT THE EDITOR
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Dr. Wolf J. Rinke, CSP is a highly effective management consultant and executive coach who specializes in building peak performance organizations, teams and individuals. He is the author of 14 books including "Make It a Winning Life: Success Strategies for Life, Love and Business" available at www.WolfRinke.com and an internationally recognized motivational and management keynote speaker and seminar leader who delivers customized presentations that combine story telling, humor and motivation with specific "how to" action strategies that participants can apply immediately to improve their personal and professional lives. You can preview a live demo at www.WolfRinke.com.
To take advantage of Dr. Rinke's services contact us at 800-828-9653 or WolfRinke@aol.com

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