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Editor: Dr. Wolf J. Rinke
Publisher: Wolf Rinke Associates, Inc.
(c) 2005 Wolf J. Rinke
Vol. 8 No. 4, August/September 2005
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IN THIS ISSUE
1. NEWS YOU CAN USE
2. DON'T PLAY TO WIN--Part I
3. GO FIGURE?
4. HUMOR BREAK
5. HEAR WOLF HOWL--I MEAN SPEAK
6. ABOUT THE EDITOR
7. PRIVACY STATEMENT AND SUBSCRIPTION INFORMATION

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REALITY CHECK
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"Leadership is getting someone to do what they don't want to do in order to achieve what they want to achieve."
--Tom Landry

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1. NEWS YOU CAN USE
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We all lie! Now that I have your attention--employees are more likely to lie about their performance when difficult goals were set and missed, as well as when they had nearly achieved their goals.
ACTION STEPS
Ask team members to set their own goals. Then review it with them to make sure that their goals are just slightly out of reach as opposed to establishing unreasonable stretch goals. Be sure to celebrate incremental achievements not just the final accomplishments of goals, and whatever you do "don't play to win"--see the article that follows.
Source: S. Grover, "The Truth, the Whole Truth, and Nothing but the Truth: The Causes and Management of Workplace Lying." Academy of Management Executive, 2005, 19 (2):148-157.

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2. DON'T PLAY TO WIN--PART I
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Given the Enron, Arthur Andersen, WorldCom and-the-list-goes-on-and-on mess, I feel a need to talk about the obvious. Because apparently, it ain't very obvious. Playing to win at any price is bad business over the long term. Especially since many companies are creating an unethical culture. For example, 44% of all non-management employees who observe ethical misconduct at work, such as abusive or intimidating behavior toward employees or lying to employees, customers, vendors or the public do not report such misconduct because they believe that no corrective action will be taken or they fear that their report would not be kept confidential. In addition, fewer than three in five employees who did report misconduct said that they were satisfied with the organizations response. The 2003 survey of 1,500 employees, conducted by the not-for-profit Ethics Resource Center in Washington, DC, further reported that although there has been the first overall drop in misconduct seen in a decade, American workers feel increased pressure--more than twice as great--to compromise ethical standards at times of mergers, acquisitions and restructuring. And that workers and managers under the age of 30 are far less likely to report misconduct, with only 43% reporting such conduct compared to 69% for all employees. Similarly 21% of younger managers with low tenure are about twice as likely to compromise ethical standards than their older counterparts.

Leaders who only know how to play to win, often lose. Because they begin to see themselves as omnipotent, able to control their own and their companies destiny. Not sure what I'm talking about? Think about perfectly good companies that were run into the ground such as Enron, Arthur Anderson, WorldCom, Tyco or Rubbermaid. All run by perfectly intelligent and competent CEO's who wanted to win and instead lost billions of other people's money. Their desire to win came about because, according to S. Finkelstein, author of "Why Smart Executives Fail," they practiced five specific habits of highly unsuccessful leaders.

In this issue we'll talk about the first three and then follow it up in the next issue with the other two habits as well as specific action steps to take to make sure that you do not succumb to these dysfunctional habits.

1. Cultivate an unethical culture.

Hey wipe that yawn off your face. This is clearly not obvious. Look at all the giant corporations that flamed out in the early 2,000s. (For example see paragraph 3--Go Figure.) There is no getting away from it, whatever you--the leader--do, will be emulated by your team members. And just a few bad apples can very quickly bring your company, organization or department to its knees, especially if it is one that sustains itself on intellectual capital, like most companies do today. (In other words when a factory is run into the ground you still have a factory, when an Internet or service company goes kaput, it is gone--think of all the dotcoms that went down the drain.)

Of course if you ask people if they are ethical or honest, everyone will raise their hands. (See for yourself. Ask that question at your next All-Hands meeting or see "News You Can Use" above.) On the other hand, see who will vote in the affirmative to this question: "You are pulling out of a parking space and ever so slightly touch the car next to you. You get out and notice that it actually produced a pretty long scratch. You look around and are convinced that no one noticed. How many of you will put a note on the other car, giving your name, address, telephone and insurance number before you drive off?" (To keep their response anonymous, ask them to write their answer on a 3x5 card, and pass it to you.) The few, if any, positive responses will startle you. You see--being ethical is non-negotiable if you are a Contrarian Leader. You can't just act ethically if someone is around or if it is convenient or expedient. Because, as I learned in the speaking business, the microphone is always on. Let me explain:
I was conducting a full day seminar for an audience of about 100 people--if memory serves me right in Minot, ND--and about midmorning the participants were working on an interactive exercise. I used that time to go to the bathroom, so I can be available for the audience during break times. This time, however, was different, because I had forgotten to turn off my lavaliere wireless microphone. Of course, as luck would have it, there was another gentleman in the bathroom at the same time. So we had a lively discussion while standing at the urinal, until someone from the audience came in to let me know that my mike was still on. When I returned, red-faced and embarrassed, virtually the entire audience was rolling in the aisles. (Well maybe not quite, but they did have a heck of a good laugh at my expense.)
The same applies to your behavior--your ethics are always showing, and your team members are always--yes I mean always--taking their cue from you, even if you don't think they are watching. And if you don't like that, get out of leadership now! You'll never be great at it because great leaders will do the right thing, even if it is at their expense.

2. Think that they are "hot stuff"

Unsuccessful leaders think that they or their services or products are the hottest thing since sliced bread and that their customers or team members can't to do without them. They forget that any success always has a component of luck--being in the right place at the right time. They forget that they, just like all other human beings, tend to externalize failure and internalize success.
A high tech global company I've been working with comes to mind. Until the reality of the market place began crashing in they thought that their employees were lucky to have the privilege to work for them--hey we do neat stuff--and you can't work for anyone else that lets you play with cutting edge technologies as we do. Their feelings about their customers were pretty much the same: you are lucky to have the opportunity to use our products. So be grateful and stop complaining about some of the glitches in our applications.
Some of these leaders avoid eating a slice of humble pie at all costs and instead begin to believe their own resumes. The fact is--here comes what you don't want to hear--being an effective leader takes persistence and hard work, and has nothing to do with being hot stuff.

3. Act like monkeys

These leaders see no evil, hear no evil, and speak no evil. Jim Collins, author of Good to Great and Built to Last has spent years figuring out what causes companies to succeed over the long run. According to him the key sign that distinguishes great companies from mediocre ones is how the leaders deal with reality. Are they dealing with the brutal facts or acting like monkeys attributing the facts to something or someone else. An example of how to do it right is Andy Grove of Intel. When the Japanese were taking their memory chip business away from them in the late 80's Mr. Grove faced the brutal facts and decided to abandon their cash cow and instead switch to the manufacture of microprocessor.
An example of how to do it wrong in the extreme is NASA. According to a Washington Post article (7/13/03, pp. A1 & A13), in the final report by the Columbia Accident Investigation Board Linda Ham, the head of the mission management team, told her colleagues that she saw no need to obtain a better image of the damage done to the ill-fated Columbia space craft or to attempt to rescue the astronauts because "I don't think there is much we can do." That comment resulted in everyone acting like monkeys and ultimately caused the demise of all astronauts and the spacecraft. Worse, they had done it all before in 1986 when the Challenger exploded, with apparently few lessons learned.

Look for the next issue of this eNL in which I will describe the other two habits--Make poor decisions because they are too successful;
and Build a "it's my way or it's the highway" organizational culture. I will also share specific smart steps you can take to avoid these dysfunctional behaviors.

SOURCE: Based in part on Chapter 7 of my book Don't Oil the Squeaky Wheel and 19 Other Contrarian Ways to Improve Your Leadership Effectiveness, McGraw-Hill, 2004.

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3. GO FIGURE?
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In keeping with the theme of this eNL, I came across the following in the Wall Street Journal 7/15/05 p. B1.
It appears that Thomas M. Coughlin, the former No. 2 executive at Wal-Mart, with a compensation package of more than $4 million a year, is alleged to have stolen as much as $500,000 including ordering employees to provide him with 51 Wal-Mart gift cards with a value of $100 each, so he could recognize Wal-Mart "All Star" employees. Instead Mr. Coughlin used the cards to "purchase" such things as a $1,000 shotgun, compact discs, vodka, wine, a fishing license and Polish sausages. Go figure?

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4. HUMOR BREAK
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Phrases used by highly unethical interviewees:

Phrase: I take pride in my work.
Meaning: I blame others for my mistakes.

Phrase: I am very adaptable.
Meaning: I've changed jobs a lot.

Phrase: I'm highly motivated to succeed.
Meaning: The minute I find a better job, I'm outta here.

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5. HEAR WOLF HOWL--I MEAN SPEAK
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There is only one more full day seminar this year which maybe open to you, especially if your company is a member of the Institute of Management Studies (IMS). Contact the Chairperson for additional information.

Winning Management: Building a Peak Performance Workplace
10/5/05 Houston, Gail Brichford, houstonims@aol.com

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6. ABOUT THE EDITOR
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Dr. Wolf J. Rinke, CSP is an internationally recognized keynote speaker and seminar leader who delivers customized presentations that combine story telling, humor and motivation with specific "how to" action strategies that participants can apply immediately to improve their management and personal effectiveness. He is also a highly effective management consultant, executive coach and author of 13 books including Don't Oil the Squeaky Wheel and 19 Other Contrarian Ways to Improve Your Leadership Effectiveness and Winning Management: 6 Fail-Safe Strategies for Building High-Performance Organizations available at www.WolfRinke.com
To take advantage of Dr. Rinke's services call 800-828-9653 or mailto:WolfRinke@aol.com

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